Saturday, February 16, 2013

When should I call?

So, you go out, you meet someone, you exchange numbers(or you get their number). Now here is the question...WHEN should you call?

Some people believe in the 24 hours after rule. Others think if you met at a night club, then the next afternoon is fine. Around that time the person isn't drunk anymore, or they have had enough time to remember who you are - considering they didn't give their numbers to fifty other people.
Others do the "call you when I get home" thing. That way they stay fresh in your mind and may very well be that first thing you think you think of upon waking up.

Different strokes for different folks, as the saying goes. If in doubt - don't be afraid to ASK.
"When should I call you?"
I don't see anything wrong with asking.

The one thing you SHOULD NOT do in terms of calling someone is to NOT call. There is no point in over thinking it. Maybe he said or she said  they would call you, BIG DEAL! If you are interested, pick up the phone and call. If you happen to run into a wife, husband, baby mama or daddy, well... now you know why they wanted to be the one doing the calling. In the event that THAT happens, my advice to you is to DELETE that number - that is drama you don't need.

Now, if the person says they are busy and they will call you back. Allow them time to do so. Don't be calling them BACK again making yourself look desperate. If they haven't called you back within 24 hours, chances are they don't want to talk to you and you should just let it go.

Some people do get caught up in personal issues or work and may very well forget, though I often find those stories hard to swallow.
Remember the number one rule of interest - if a person is interested they will MAKE time for you. A phone call or text message isn't as hard as some people try to make you think it is.
If you want to risk calling again...that's on you. You may very well reap the good results of being persistent.

So, if you just got a number from a sexy female or swagalicious male. USE IT!!
What are you waiting for?

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