What's the number one characteristic you look for in a partner?

Some of you submit topics for the blog to the facebook inbox.
For questions that have more than one answer I round up my pool of loyal readers and ask them for their answers.
So, here were the answers I collected.

What is the number one characteristic you look for in a partner?

Women Answered - 
Good Looks
Ambition
Funny personality
Good Listener
Swag (how he dresses)
Attentive
Talkative
Educated
Wealth
Living situation (alone or with mom)
If he flirts too much or is a player
How he treats his mother
Family oriented ( and if he wants marriage and kids)


Men Answered-
Good Looks
Manners
Big booty
Nice Breast
Eyes
Natural hair
The way she carries her self
Friendly
How she dresses (classy or trashy)
Church going
If she can have a conversation (Educated)
A good cook
Clean and tidy

Are there many differences between the things women and men look for?